True~ true~
September 9th, 2005 by niminThis can make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another prepared.
~ If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want
you, nothing can make him stay.
~ Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
~ Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be.
~ Slower is better.
~ Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
~ If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t "be friends". A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.
~ Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
~ Don’t stay because you think "it will get better."
~ You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
~ Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
~ Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
~ Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
~ Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
~ You cannot change a man’s behaviour. Change comes from within.
~ Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are…even if he has more education or in a better job.
~ Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
~ Never let a man define who you are.
~ Never borrow someone else’s man. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.
~ A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
~ All men are NOT dogs.
~ You should not be the one doing all the bending…compromise is two way street.
~ You need time to heal between relationships…there is nothing cute about baggage… Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
~ You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you…a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals…look for someone complimentary… not supplementary.
~ Dating is fun… even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right.
~ Make him miss you sometimes… when a man always know where you are, and you’re always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
~ Never move into his mother’s house.
~ Never co-sign for a man.
~ Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
